Bladder Control Made Easy: Mastering the Peeing Process

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January 6, 2025

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Blossom Clinical Team

Bladder health depends on how the nervous system, spinal cord, and pelvic floor muscles work together. Even though emptying the bladder seems simple, it actually involves several reflexes. These reflexes help keep control of the bladder and stop urine leakage. In this text, we will look at the reflexes that manage urination and go through the steps of peeing.

The Relevant Reflexes in Bladder Control

There are four main reflexes, or “loops,” that connect the bladder, brain, and spinal cord. They work together to manage urination.1 These reflexes let your brain know when the bladder is full. They also help you hold urine until you can use the bathroom. Having good bathroom habits helps these reflexes work well. On the other hand, bad habits can upset them. This could lead to problems like loss of bladder control, urge incontinence, and overflow incontinence. 2

Tips for Maintaining Healthy Reflex Loops

  1. Don’t push when you go to the bathroom. This can upset how your bladder works.
  2. Try bladder training if you have functional incontinence or urge incontinence. This helps you retrain your reflexes and feel better about bladder control.
  3. Don’t squeeze or contract the pelvic floor while peeing. This helps keep communication between your brain and bladder clear, which can lower the chance of problems.

Visualizing the Peeing Process: The Bladder as a Water Balloon

Think of your bladder like a water balloon. During the day, urine fills your bladder. As this happens, the walls stretch. This is similar to how a balloon gets bigger when filled with water. Urination has several important steps: 3

  • Filling Phase: Your bladder fills up. Its muscles stay relaxed and stretch as urine builds up. The pelvic floor muscles around the opening of the bladder stay tight, stopping leaks, just like tying a knot at the end of a balloon.
  • Holding Phase: As the bladder fills more, nervous system reflexes help keep the bladder relaxed. The opening stays tight, giving you control until you feel ready to go to the bathroom.
  • Emptying Phase: When you need to empty your bladder, the muscles around the opening relax, “untie” the knot. Then, the walls of the bladder contract by themselves. This pushes the urine out without needing you to push.

Why Avoid Pushing?

The normal process of urinating should be easy. You do not need to push. Just relax your pelvic floor. This helps the bladder empty on its own. Pushing can make things worse. It can strain your pelvic floor muscles. This may lead to problems like bladder dysfunction and incontinence.

Common Questions About the Process of Peeing

What happens if I try to hold urine for too long?

Holding urine for too long can put stress on the bladder muscles and stretch out the bladder, weakening it over time.4 It can also change the normal reflexes in your body. This might cause urge incontinence or bladder leakage. For people with an enlarged prostate or a type of urinary incontinence that is tied to holding urine, waiting too long can make their symptoms worse.

Why should I avoid contracting my pelvic floor during urination?

Contracting the pelvic floor muscles while you are urinating can confuse how your brain and bladder work together. This makes it harder to control your bladder. If you keep doing this, it can make symptoms of functional incontinence worse over time.

Can poor bathroom habits lead to bladder issues?

Yes, habits like going to the bathroom “just in case” or trying to force urination can mess up your reflexes. This may lead to problems like stress incontinence or urge incontinence. Keeping a regular bathroom schedule helps your bladder work well and can prevent loss of bladder control.

Key Takeaways for a Healthy Urination Process

Supporting bladder health means letting the bladder fill up, hold, and empty in a natural way. You should not push or interfere with the reflexes. When you pee, try not to contract the pelvic floor. If you have urge incontinence or overflow incontinence, practice bladder training.5 Keeping regular bathroom habits and doing pelvic floor exercises can help you control your bladder and support the natural process of urination. Reach out to one of our pelvic health specialists at Blossom to help you properly retrain your bladder “master” the peeing process!

DISCLAIMER This article is intended for educational purposes only, using publicly available information. It is not medical advice nor should it be used for the diagnosis, treatment, or prevention of disease. Please seek the advice of your physician or another licensed medical provider for any health questions or concerns. In the case of emergency, call 911.

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Footnotes

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Sugaya K, Nishijima S, Miyazato M, Ogawa Y. Central nervous control of micturition and urine storage. J Smooth Muscle Res. 2005 Jun;41(3):117-32. doi: 10.1540/jsmr.41.117. PMID: 16006745.

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Feloney MP, Leslie SW. Bladder Sphincter Dyssynergia. 2023 Nov 12. In: StatPearls [Internet]. Treasure Island (FL): StatPearls Publishing; 2025 Jan–. PMID: 32965837.

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Nitti V, Taneja S. Overactive bladder: achieving a differential diagnosis from other lower urinary tract conditions. Int J Clin Pract. 2005 Jul;59(7):825-30. doi: 10.1111/j.1742-1241.2005.00490.x. PMID: 15963211.

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Drake MJ. The integrative physiology of the bladder. Ann R Coll Surg Engl. 2007 Sep;89(6):580-5. doi: 10.1308/003588407X205585. PMID: 18201471; PMCID: PMC2121225.

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Stav K, Dwyer PL, Rosamilia A. Women overestimate daytime urinary frequency: the importance of the bladder diary. J Urol. 2009 May;181(5):2176-80. doi: 10.1016/j.juro.2009.01.042. Epub 2009 Mar 17. PMID: 19296975.