Kegel Weights: Do They Really Work for Pelvic Floor Health?
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May 12, 2025
7 min read
Rachel, Pelvic Health Specialist

Let’s be honest: if using small vaginal weights to strengthen your pelvic floor seems a bit strange, you're not the only one who thinks that. The world of wellness enjoys a good trend-especially if it claims to tighten your core, improve sex, and reduce leaks, all while being a bit mysterious. Enter kegel weights, colorful exercise balls promoted as a quick way to strengthen your pelvic floor. However, even though they are popular on social media and in stores, these devices do not work the same for everyone. For many people, they could actually cause more problems than benefits.
In this article, we will look at the proof for kegel weights, explain how they work, and discuss why pelvic health experts feel unsure about women using them without help or guidance. For your pelvic floor, having more strength isn't always the best choice.
What Are Kegel Weights?
Kegel weights, also called kegel exercise balls, pelvic weights, or vaginal cones, are small items you insert into the vagina. They help create resistance when you do pelvic floor muscle exercises, known as kegels. You can think of them as tools to strengthen your pelvic floor. This area supports important organs like the bladder, uterus, and rectum.
They usually come in a set of weights that get heavier. The plan is to start with the lightest weight and increase the weight as your pelvic floor gets stronger.
How Are Kegel Weights Supposed to Work?
Kegel weights help make pelvic floor exercises even more effective. They provide resistance that allows the muscles to feel something to "hold in." This extra weight is meant to:
- Make muscles more toned
- Help with bladder control
- Boost sexual satisfaction
- Stop or fix early-stage prolapse
In theory, the idea is not unrealistic. Progressive resistance training helps build muscle strength. However, your pelvic floor is not the same as your biceps or other muscles. This is where things become tricky.
Do Kegel Weights Really Work?
The proof about kegel weights and their effectiveness compared to regular pelvic floor exercises is unclear. There are points for and against both methods.
A systematic review in the Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews showed that pelvic floor muscle training (PFMT) helps treat urinary incontinence in women[1]. However, there is limited evidence that using weights gives any extra benefit beyond doing the exercises correctly and regularly.
Many studies that look at the results of PFMT do not use weighted devices, yet they still show clear improvement in symptoms like stress incontinence, urgency, and mild prolapse.
The Pros of Kegel Weights (We’ll Keep It Brief)
This article runs on the side of caution. However, it's right to say that kegel weights can be useful in some situations:
- Increased Awareness: Some users feel that holding a physical object helps them use the right muscles. This is especially true for those who have trouble with coordination.
- Motivation and Structure: Using a weighted tool can help people stay consistent with their workouts, especially when it’s part of a wider pelvic floor program.
- Potential for Improvement in Mild Cases: For some people with mild pelvic floor weakness, especially after having a baby, weights can help improve basic muscle training. This should be done with the help of a specialist.
Most of these benefits can also be gained through non-weighted kegel training. You can achieve them without the risks that we will discuss next.
The Cons of Kegel Weights: What Most People Don’t Know
Here’s where it becomes more important. Kegel weights seem like a safe wellness tool, but pelvic health experts say they can make symptoms worse for some people, especially when used without proper screening or guidance.
1. They Can Aggravate a Tight Pelvic Floor
Many people think that all pelvic floor issues are due to weakness. However, that is not true. A lot of people, especially those with ongoing pain, stress, or past trauma, actually have a tight and overactive pelvic floor, known as hypertonic pelvic floor.
Adding resistance training to a muscle that is already tight can make symptoms feel worse. Symptoms of those who may be experiencing tight pelvic floor muscles include:
- Discomfort during sex
- Cramping or spasms in the pelvic area
- Difficulty with constipation
- Not fully emptying the bladder
- Pain in the lower back or hips
A review from 2022 in Neurourology and Urodynamics highlighted that pelvic floor dysfunction can be caused by both weakness and overactivity. It noted that treatments should be specially designed to address these different issues[2].
2. They May Worsen Prolapse if Used Incorrectly
Some guides on kegel weights say you can use them while standing, walking, or doing chores. However, if you have undiagnosed prolapse or weak connective tissue, this may make the prolapse worse.
A study from 2020 in Female Pelvic Medicine & Reconstructive Surgery found that doing PFMT incorrectly, especially with weights, can make prolapse symptoms worse for people who do not have enough support[3].
3. They Don’t Teach Proper Muscle Coordination
Many people don't know how to perform kegel exercises properly. Without help from a trainer or tools that show you how, it's common to compensate or use the wrong muscles to help, like your glutes, abs, or inner thighs. You might bear down when you should lift, or you could hold your breath. These mistakes can make your practice less effective.
A study in the American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology found that training for the pelvic floor with feedback or supervision led to much better results compared to practicing alone without guidance[4].
4. Risk of Infection or Irritation
Let’s discuss hygiene. If weights are put in several times without being cleaned well, this can raise the chance of:
- Vaginal infections (like yeast and bacterial vaginosis)
- Small abrasions
- Irritation, mainly in women going through perimenopause who experience vaginal dryness
Some devices are made with porous materials or scented plastics. These materials are not meant for long-term use in the vagina.
5. They Can Trigger or Worsen Pelvic Pain Conditions
For people who have issues like vaginismus, endometriosis, or interstitial cystitis, putting in a kegel weight might hurt and not help. Even if they don’t feel pain right away, using it for a long time can make the tissues more sensitive and cause problems later on.
A 2021 article in the International Urogynecology Journal warns that pelvic floor training should be modified or adjusted a lot for patients in pain. It also says that this training must always be supervised[5].
What Are the Alternatives to Kegel Weights?
If you want to improve your bladder control, strengthen your pelvic floor, or deal with postpartum problems, there are safer and more effective options than kegel weights. It's best to use these alternatives with expert advice.
- Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy: A licensed pelvic PT can provide the best and most personalized care. They can help determine if your pelvic floor is too tight, too weak, or simply not working well/coordinating together. Then, they will create a program that is right for your body and symptoms[6].
- Biofeedback Devices: These tools do not add extra weight. Instead, they measure how your muscles work and provide instant feedback to help you improve your technique. Many of them have clearance from the FDA, and clinical trials show that they work better than weights for reducing symptoms[7].
- Breathwork and Core Re-education: Pelvic floor health is closely linked to your breathing, how you stand or sit, and the stability of your core. By working with a professional, you can practice using your diaphragm and deep core muscles in the right way. This practice can greatly improve your pelvic health, and you won't need any weights.
- Gentle, Guided Kegels: Done in the right way and consistently, unweighted kegels work well for many people. The important things are supervision, feedback, and starting slowly.
Can Kegel Weights Ever Be Helpful?
Yes, but it is important to find the right candidate and have proper guidance. Some ideal situations might include:
- There is a confirmed weakness in the pelvic floor (hypotonicity).
- Muscle loss has occurred postpartum, without other complicating factors.
- There are no signs of prolapse or pelvic pain.
- The person has a strong awareness of their body and can monitor their own technique.
Kegel weights should be used while lying down or sitting. Use them for short periods, like 5–10 minutes. Always focus on using the right muscles during this time.
How Often Should You Use Kegel Weights?
For people cleared by a pelvic health professional, kegel weights should be used for only a few minutes each day. Aim for 3 to 4 times a week, starting with the lightest weight. If you feel pain, pressure, or see more leakage, stop right away and get help.
Final Thoughts: Should You Use Kegel Weights?
Let’s say it like this: just because you can put a dumbbell in your vagina, doesn’t mean you should.
Kegel weights are sold as a fast solution for problems like bladder leaks, weak pelvic muscles, and sexual health. However, many people use them incorrectly. This can lead to more harm than good, especially for those who may have undiagnosed issues.
Pelvic health is unique and closely linked to your entire body. You will get the best results from care that is tailored just for you, instead of using the same approach for everyone. So, before you try lifting weights, consult with an expert first.